Planning for Incapacity


Basic estate planning should include helping clients plan for incapacity. An experienced attorney will educate a client of the benefits and limitations of four basic documents no estate plan should be without: Durable Power of Attorney, Designation of Conservator, Health Care Instructions (“Living Wills”), and Appointment of Health Care Representative. These four documents comprise the basic foundation of planning for incapacity. When the need arises, revocable trusts can augment these documents.

Incapacity can be defined as the inability to understand and appreciate the nature and consequences of one’s decisions. By definition, when one becomes incapacitated, one can no longer legally make decisions on behalf of one’s self. When an individual has each of the four documents listed above, one’s affairs can be seamlessly managed after incapacity.

Durable Power of Attorney

A Durable Power of Attorney is arguably the most important component when planning for incapacity. A Durable Power of Attorney establishes a fiduciary relationship between two people. The first is the agent, the person appointed attorney-in-fact. The second is the principal, who the person signing the document.

If a Power of Attorney contains a statement similar to the following, “This power of attorney shall not be affected by the subsequent disability or incompetence of the principal”, then the subsequent disability or incompetence of a principal will not revoke or terminate the authority of the attorney-in-fact.

A typical statutory form power of attorney is an extremely powerful document. It allows the attorney-in-fact to engage in a broad range of transactions and activities on behalf of the principal. For this reason, one should exercise care and diligence when appointing an attorney-in-fact.

Notwithstanding the broad nature of a Durable Power of Attorney, many skilled estate planning attorneys suggest that the Connecticut Statutory Short Form Power of Attorney be revised to add certain language missing from the standard form. These additions include: the power to make gifts to spouse, descendants, and charities,; the power to transfer property specifically to a Revocable Trust established by the principal; and the power to serve as a Personal Representative for the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (“HIPPA”).

Designation of Conservator

A probate court has the authority to appoint a Conservator of the estate to represent the interests of an incapacitated person. Because that appointment will terminate the relationship created by a Durable Power of Attorney, many clients sign a Designation of Conservator simultaneously with their Durable Power of Attorney. This document simply expresses one’s desire to appoint a particular individual as conservator should the need arise. A Designation of Conservator can prevent a disgruntled family member from being named conservator. It can also save significant fiduciary fees if the probate court appoints a professional as conservator.

Health Care Instructions/Living Will

Health care instructions, commonly known as a “living will”, is a written document that contains one’s wishes concerning any aspect of one’s health care. This includes the withholding or withdrawal of life support systems. A living will becomes operative when the document is furnished to the attending physician and the patient is determined to be incapacitated.

A physician or medical facility will not withhold or remove life support systems unless or until (i) the decision to remove or withhold care is based on the best medical judgment of the attending physician in accordance with the usual and customary standards of medical practice, (ii) the attending physician deems the patient to be in a terminal condition or permanently unconscious, and (iii) the attending physician has considered the patient’s wishes concerning the withholding or withdrawal of life support systems.

If the attending physician does not deem the patient to be in a terminal condition or permanently unconscious, then beneficial medical treatment including nutrition and hydration must be provided. A living will can be used to help the attending physician determine a patient’s wishes.

Appointment of Health Care Representative

An Appointment of Health Care Representative is the fourth document to be created when planning for incapacity. It appoints a fiduciary to make health care decisions for the declarant in the event the declarant becomes incapacitated. A health care representative can help ensure that one’s wishes are followed.

From a legal standpoint, one should keep the following rules in mind:

  • the person appointed as representative cannot act as a witness to the document appointing him/her
  • a nurse or employee of a health care facility or nursing home may not act as a representative to a patient unless they are related
  • the appointment of the principal’s spouse as heal care representative is revoked upon divorce or legal separation from the principal

In conclusion, an individual with a Durable Power of Attorney, Designation of Conservator, Living Will, and Appointment of Health Care Representative in place is very well prepared for the management of their assets and health care in the event of short-term incapacity. Any estate plan prepared by Holland Law Offices includes these four documents as part of the plan.

Holland Law Offices has extensive experience in helping clients update their Estate Plans. Contact Paul G. Holland Jr. for an initial consultation at 860-415-0075 or


Planning for incapacity  is something most of us do not think about. But we should,  says Stonington estate planning attorney Paul  Holland. Paul says there are four documents you must have  for a thorough incapacity plan:

  • First is the durable power of attorney. This document establishes the relationship between you and the person you name as your POA, or attorney-in-fact. This person has a great deal of power and can engage in all sorts of transactions and activities on your behalf, so it must be someone you trust.
  • The designation of conservator often goes hand-in-hand with the durable power of attorney. That’s because the probate court has authority to appoint a conservator for an incapacitated person,  which ends the power of attorney relationship.  That is not a choice you want others to make for you.
  • Next is the living will: This document  states your health care wishes, including end-of-life decisions So, if the doctor has this living will, and you are incapacitated, it will be part of what the medical team uses to decide next steps.
  • The final document is the appointment of a health care representative. This is the person who makes all health care decisions for you, should you become incapacitated.

If you need to create or review any of these critical documents, call Holland Law Offices or visit hollandprobate     

We could not be more impressed with Paul’s practice. He helped orchestrate our wills, trusts, and our advance directives. He was able to do it in a timely and professional fashion that we were impressed by. We plan on recommending Paul to friends and coworkers at similar stages in life.

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